I have a problem. I like this guy and I know he likes me, but somethings
holding me back. He's nice enough to go at my own pace,but still...something's keeping me from telling him face to face how
I feel. Wether it's the fact I'm friends with his sister and don't know how to act around her if we did get together.
Then there's the fact that God's putting me with him, but I don't know if it's what God wants and at the same time...argh
I'm just confused. HELP!
--Frustrated And Confused Friend
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Dear confused and frustrated friend,
You are not alone, I have
heard many stories of people in your same position. I'm just so glad to hear that you want to know what God wants for
you and putting him into your love life plan is a very good idea. I know you have probably heard this may times before, do
what God wants you to do. Well...maybe you don't know what God wants you to do. Maybe this guys is right for you and God wants
you to be with him, but your the one holding back. I understand by your e-mail that you have thought this through a lot and
just wish someone could make the decision for you and get it over with, but, honey, only you can make the decision. I believe
you should talk your feelings over with this guy and tell him how you feel, if he was patient enough to go at your own pace
then you should be able to be able to be kind enough to be straight up with him. I understand what's holding you back is this
guys sister (your friend) if she/he was truely your friend she/he wouldn't mind at all. First talk to the guy and then to
your friend and see how it goes. You might find that it was fine all along and that you worried for nothing.
